Is It OK to Have a Racial Preference in Dating?

May 14, Messages: Never been with any Asian or black girls but only because I've never had the opportunity I suppose. But I date outside my race all the time. A lot of middle Eastern girls like me because Im appearently the perfect mix of caucasian and Arab looking. Apr 22, Messages: I only date humans so no. Peteyandjia , Dec 7, Mike , panamaican , ManCityFC9 and 9 others like this.

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Dec 6, Messages: Everyone hates me except black girls. I love me some black girls though. Zer , Dec 7, Malvo and Nesruk like this.

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Mar 28, Messages: Yes but Im way more picky on looks about girls outside my own race. I can dumpster dive with white girls but other races i can't.

Aug 25, Messages: Midnighter , Dec 7, Sep 9, Messages: Ill date anything outside my species if it means I'm getting laid-. Dec 7, Messages: I guess people from similar cultural backgrounds will just always find common things to share and naturally feel attracted to. Hunter Simpson , cigano , DLX and 2 others like this. Apr 15, Messages: I've done hispanic, black and asian I think I need to go back to white honestly though, I think you inherently are more likely but obviously not necessarily to have more in common and share more of the same viewpoints with your own race, which would create less conflict Jun 10, Messages: In The Sweat Lodge.

Never dated an East Indian or Asian.. Not that I didn't want to.

Do you date outside your race/ethnicity?

Just never had the opportunity in the places I've lived.. Two people from different backgrounds or cultures coming together to prove to the world that love can rise above all our differences.

Girl Chat: Does Dating Hinge on Race?

God made all of us, including the color of our skin. Then explain how you have found someone who you really connect with on many different levels. One word of caution: So it is easy for the two of you to get wrapped up in an Us vs. The problem with that is sooner or later those who are against your relationship will quit caring about the race situation. Then the two of you will still have relationship issues to work out, without the emotion and drama of standing alone against the world.

Sometimes without those Us vs. The World, the relationship crashes because there was not enough foundation there to begin with. Some of the problems facing interracial dating are not related to skin color, but more to cultural differences.

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The question you should ask is: Remember, cultural differences can be a big deal. It is a struggle to find a balance between time with the person you love and the other important people in your life. Remember love is not selfish or demanding.